How is it going with you? 
I am actually several days ahead of the blog on my dares.  Last week on Friday I was on Day 16, the dare I will give you in a minute. It asks for you to pray for your spouse and any areas you may need help in.  In your marriage, in his heart, in your heart, etc.  I prayed for a deeper intimacy and peace in B's heart and mine.
That night after the kids went to bed B asked me if I would like to watch  movie.  We went to Verizon's on demand site and they had 2 movies we both wanted to see. Fireproof (the movie featuring the Love Dare),and some other movie.  I know he really wanted to see the other one, but he chose FP because he knew I wanted to see it.  We watched it and I told him that I had been following the Love Dare.  The acting in it was pretty bad, but the message was amazing.  We sat there after the movie and talked for hours. I told him he was welcome to read my book, but he said he wanted to do the Love Dare on his own.  The last three days we have had a peace and contentment in our house and relationship that has never been there.  Conflict has been met with understanding.  He has been doing housework for me that I would normally nag about. He looks at me different, we talk different.  Love is good.
The difference happened when I invited God to be a part of our marriage.  Try it, be open to it, and you will experience incredible results.  God is love.
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I stumble upon your site after a friend told me about the love dare. I have been reading through your blog since. My husband moved out in October because of many faults I have...I had no idea he was so unhappy with me so it was quite a shock.
We have decided to get together January 15th to decide if we will work on our marriage or proceed with the divorce. In the mean time I have done much soul searching and made quite a few changes. The day my friend told me about the Love Dare was exactly 40 days before January 15th...definately devine intervension. I am hoping this works. He is the love of my life and we share 4 amazing children. after 10 years of marriage I feel more in love with him now than I have in a long time. Thank you for your blog. Tonight I will be inviting God into our marriage.
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